Monday, August 19, 2013

So Apparently I'm a drug dealer

So for some reason random things seem to happen to me.  They are random to the point that they just sound ridiculous.  Today was such an example of that.  Today as I proceeded to go to the gym while minding my own business I was harassed by someone who is certified 51/50 or should I just say...Crazy. As I walk through my complex this is what happens:

Her: Are you going to run, how do you have time for that?

Me: I'm going to the gym.

Her: You know they sell drugs at that gym, so you know what that makes you...A drug dealer. How can the gym afford to only charge $10 if they aren't selling drugs.

Me: (In complete silence because I know realize she isn't wrapped to tight).

Her: You should take my zumba class or samba. Say no to the treadmill!

Me: (Still in complete silence).

Her: Dumb Ass! Dumb Ass!

Me: (Continuing to ignore her as I look for things that can be used at weapons in case she decided to attack).

So like my title says, apparently I'm a drug dealer. Well, at least I am if you ask the women with mental issues.

Sunday, April 22, 2012

26 weeks -Week 1-

Week 1
I've decided to embark on my journey of completing 26.2 miles  and particpate in the Los Angeles Marathon that takes place March 18, 2012.  This week began my training and my legs are sore.  I don't think that I have ever experienced soreness like this in my life.  I guess this will gradually go away as my trianing continues. Kristen and I were surprised at the pace group we ended up being placed in.  It's a slight improvement from the pace gorup that I was in last year.  We shall see how it goes.  I'm excited and scared at the same time.

Week 2
I actually showed back up with the mindset that 4 miles was just one mile more than 3. I am convinced that it is a cult and I am trying to decide if I want to be a member. Kristen and I finished it in under an hour with relative ease.  Well other than that nagging pain in my right foot 3rd toe.  I gotta figure out a way to make this work since I have at least 24 more weeks to go. Next week is just 1 extra mile and mentally I'm ready, I just have to added the physical part to it so I can endure. It's been a minute since I've done 5 miles.  Almost a year to be exact.

Week 3
5 miles officially down. 1 more mile than 4. I survived without my body hating me in the end. Those midday workouts are the truth.  Kristen and I are gradually beginning to buy into this cult, since we are definitely convinced that people who run when there is nothing chasing them have to be in some mind altering state. My foot held up, but that left leg was another story.  The quest will continue.

The sad part is that I fell off with my training and fell off with this blog, but still completed it.  Seeing this draft brought a smile to my face and any time that happens I'm happy. It's nice to have a moment of reflection.

Tuesday, March 20, 2012

Mile 18

So this weekend I finally crossed completing the LA Marathon off of my bucket list that lives in my laundry closet.  I probably could have trained more, since the farthest distant that I ran for this particular race was 9 miles.  I probably should have carried some type of anti-inflammatory because after awhile my body decided that it was tired and ready to go home.

It was almost midnight the day before Roadrunners training was set to began when I decided to join the training program and sign up for the marathon way back in September 2011.  The farthest distant I had done prior to this was a half marathon in 10/2010. I knew if I bought the marathon at the same time as the training then I would be guaranteed to show up to the marathon.  My first day there I met another person who was just like me, Kristen. She decided it was on her bucket list and signed up that morning.  Her and I began out in the same pace group and we eventually fell off with our formal training, but we both showed up on race day.  Knowing that we had made it through the six months of training and actually showed up on race day put a smile on my face.



I started the race with a new pace group because my other goal besides making it to the finish line for my medal was to not get carted away by the medical support staff.  In my mind I was flying.  I hit mile 13 which is almost enough for a half marathon and felt great.  I felt so good that I told my mother and sister to hurry up or I was going to pass the designated meet up area.  Everything was going well until I hit mile 18.  Mile 18 felt like my body put the brakes on the running and damn near put the brakes on walking.  I knew after I passed mile 13 that I was in uncharted territory and was nervous about how my body would respond.  I think this is the first time that I actually hit that wall that I've heard athletes talk about.

From mile 18-25.0 I officially crossed over to the realm of walking and taking in  a leisurely tour of the city, I even decided to finally take a potty break.  At about mile 25 I looked over at the medical station and saw the biggest bottle of aspirin I had seen in my life and I felt like my prayers were answered.  I immediately made my way there to ask for some pain meds. Even though I only got Advil, it felt like I was given dilaudid, percocet and morphine. After about 15 minutes or so the meds kicked in and I was able to walk like a chick who hadn't already finished 25 miles.  I felt so good I decided to sprint my way in.  I'm not sure if it was the fact that I knew I was close to the 26 mile mark, the endorphins, or that good ol Advil, but the beast came alive and I once again felt great. As I was coming in I kept myself form crying despite the fact that I was feeling very emotional and for those who know me that means this must have been major. 


As far as today goes, 2 days after the marathon, my body is still rebelling.  I've never experienced pain in my thighs like this before. I feel like someone punched my outer thighs.  I can't take stairs because it almost brings me to the point of tears.  The only thing that keeps me going right now is the gleam that comes off my medal and my cute shirt that says 26.2.  I read somewhere that less than 1% of the population will ever complete a marathon. I guess I'm apart of that 1% and knowing that feels good despite wanting to cry every time I stand up and walk.

And before I leave I have to give a shout out to Black Girls Run.  I never knew that there were like minded women of color who didn't think that doing long distances of running was crazy.  Seeing them between miles 19 and 20 was an added boost of encouragement. I can wait to log some more miles with them on a  Saturday run.





Tuesday, October 4, 2011

Adventures in Dating Part 1/5

So after awhile of feeling that I needed something more in my life I decided to sign up with a matchmaker and allow someone else the task of finding me a date.  10/03/2011 was the first of five.  I arrived just 5 minutes earlier than our scheduled time and asked for a table for two.  I so felt like I was in a television show since that is what I've always seen done. Eventually "my date" shows up slightly late (only like 5 minutes, but we live in LA so with our traffic that was still pretty good.  Of course he was a transport, which means that he was born and raised somewhere else, but then moved to California.

Initially there were the awkward moments of silence and the questions about the usual stuff, but eventually it felt like I was talking to someone that I had known for awhile.  The experience went better than expected.  Not sure if I found love, but I certainly found a new place to satisfy my food cravings for tiramisu.

This dating thing is quite interesting.  How is someone with a full-time job and other life responsibilities expected to find another human being that they are compatible with in the span of a 24 hour day?  I'm just saying, maybe if I worked part time then I would have time to focus on this aspect of my life.  I'm looking forward to date 2/5 to see how that goes, in addition to experiencing a new food location. 

Tuesday, September 27, 2011

The numbers game

I'm officially addicted to Sex and the City and continually try to relate their made up lives to my real life.  So to fill you in: Miranda gets diagnosed with chlamydia and is told by her doctor to contact all of her previous sexual partners.  As she tries to recollect all the people she's had sex with she come to the tally of 30 guys.  I mentioned this episode to a friend who mentioned that those were hoeish (sp) numbers for a women, but of course for a man it was just alright.


In 2011, is there such a thing as hoeish numbers and does a double standard still exist?  Do women have to lie about lower numbers just so that they aren't viewed in a negative light.  I so hate double standards because I would like to believe I could live in a world that's fair, but I know that is just a thought that will exist only in my own head.


Nothing more to add to this post, I just felt like getting this thought out of my head and putting it into the universe as I review my own personal list.

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

Alicia Keys-Element of Freedom-Song #7

Have you ever had a continuous thought over and over and began to believe that it could be reality but are afraid of what others might say.  My life has consisted of me having these types of thoughts.  Anytime that I actually spend great deals of time thinking about something then I feel that it probably is rather important since I'm usually able to come to a conclusion on things rather fast. This situation has me torn.  Do you stay with what you have always known or do you go out on a limb for something unknown.

Whenever I have gone out on a limb into the unknown it usually has worked out well. I went to college without ever stepping foot on campus until the day I moved in and it ranks in the top of  "The Best Decisions that Olu has made". I admit sometimes people just do crazy things just to see what's going to happen, but I don't think this is one of those situations.  I've thought of my contingency plan if I truly decide to embark on this adventure in the life of Olu.

As always I use the lyrics from songs in my life and this particular song had many lyrics that described what I was feeling at the time. It was crazy how it just spoke to me. At times I have moments when songs speak to me. Jill Scott has done it many times and Drake always has a line that represents me to a tee.

Moment of honesty...
I'm gonna sit right here
And tell you all that comes to me
If you have something to say
You should say it right now

I was wondering maybe

Could I make you my baby
If we do the unthinkable would it make us look crazy
If you ask me I'm ready

Not sure where I'm going with this one but at least if I have it written it takes it out of my mind and provides me with a brief moment of clarity.

Thursday, June 2, 2011

Can't sell me Bullshit...I Know the prices

After my recent trip after interactions with various people I realized that I enjoy compliments from whomever with the understanding that those comments are usually just to assist them in the selling of a product of for other devious endeavors.  I guess as long as I figure that I know their intentions then they truly aren't really getting over on me.  It's comical how people think that they are providing you with what they consider important information when in reality it's just bullshit. 


There a few things in life that I can't stand; liars and bs'ers.  The reason probably is because I feel that your word is your bond and neither one of those types of people word holds any weight.  It is refreshing when some is actually being "real".  I so hate the concept of being real because I don't know exactly what it's supposed to mean.  There are many instances when "being real goes wrong".  I think Dave Chappelles skit summarized it best.


I think when I first heard the title of this blog is was in a Jay-Z song.  Gradually as I listen to things over and over again I get a better understanding, or at least my understanding of what they should be, which is the most important thing.  As I sit here in the Cleveland airport listing to Rick Ross and trying to get myself mentally prepared for Miami I'm wondering how many times this phrase will pop into my mind this weekend.  A short and sweet writing before I take another nap to fix the fact that I landed at 3:30 am Cali time. Sigh.